How Money Changed My Relationship
Michela Buttignol for BuzzFeed News. Few things disturb an otherwise healthy relationship like money problems. Sometimes, the problem is simply “one of us has more of it.” Income disparity — when one...
View ArticleI Have Long Nails Because I’m Proud Of What They Mean
Alice Mongkongllite / BuzzFeed Life Growing out my nails started as an experiment. Five months ago, I was in Boston for the weekend to give a talk at Harvard. The evening before my talk, I spent some...
View Article11 Things No One Tells Guys With Depression
Daniel Dalton / BuzzFeed / Via unsplash.com Depression and anxiety are issues that transcend gender, and not all people experience depression the same way. This particular post focuses on depression...
View ArticleI Terminated My Much-Wanted Pregnancy
Melody Newcomb for BuzzFeed News It’s considered a rite of passage for anyone who rides a bike in the Bay Area: At some point, your wheels will be stolen. Mine were nabbed near downtown, right outside...
View ArticleThis Is How Debt Teaches You About Money
David Tolu Graham for BuzzFeed Two months before I was born, my parents sat side by side in Catford Homeless Unit, and declared themselves homeless.Unable to make the monthly mortgage payments in the...
View ArticleI Gave A Speech About Race To The Publishing Industry And No One Heard Me
Will Varner / BuzzFeed Last night, I walked into a mini-disaster. Or to be more precise, I stood on a chair in it.A few weeks ago, when Publisher’s Weekly asked me to give the keynote speech in a...
View Article7 Essays To Read: How Money Affects Love, Muppet Sex, And What's Wrong With...
This week, six women share their stories about how income disparity affects their relationships. Read that and other essays from Pacific Standard, Racked, The Offing, and more. "White Supremacy and...
View Article“Transparent” Deserves Its Emmys, But How Can The Show Get Better?
Jeffrey Tambor and director Jill Soloway. Imeh Akpanudosen / Getty Images Had it won Best Comedy, Transparent could have joined Viola Davis — the first black woman to win Best Actress in a Drama — in...
View ArticleHow To Flirt With Queer Girls Without Making A Total Fool Of Yourself
Talking to strangers you hope to one day see naked is a nerve-racking endeavor. What if they don’t like you? What if it’s awk city? What if you get in front of them and don’t know what to say? The...
View ArticleI Used To Be An Alcoholic. Now I'm A Stoner Who Has A Drink Sometimes.
Kiersten Essenpreis for BuzzFeed News Right after I arrived at my first and last Alcoholics Anonymous meeting, a woman in a pink teddy-bear sweatshirt clutched me to her ample breast. She was the only...
View ArticleWhen You Can't Decide If You're A Good Feminist
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View ArticleSchool Is Racist
LM Otero / AP Photo When we talk about racism in American schools, we’re usually talking about numbers and statistics: demography, student-to-teacher ratios, test scores, graduation rates. Last week,...
View ArticleWe Asked 17 People Why They Visited A Planned Parenthood And These Are Their...
“I went to Planned Parenthood with my friend who was having an abortion.” Anti-abortion activists are saying Planned Parenthood is an unscrupulous and profit-seeking organization and the House of...
View ArticleThey Pretend To Be Us While Pretending We Don't Exist
To be Other in America is to be coveted and hated at the same time. It’s never been enough to know that I feel it, but I know I am often asked to prove it before I am allowed to speak on it. When I...
View ArticleBeing An Extra On "Black-Ish" Was Totally Radical
Michael Ansell / ABC Here’s a glimpse into my most glamorous workday ever:I was wearing a drop-waist dress with intricate beading along the bodice and skirt. Long, white satin gloves were pulled up...
View Article“We Think Victims Deserve Our Sympathy Only If They’re Well-Behaved"
Rebecca Hendin / BuzzFeed The sour relationship between shame and women’s sexuality is nothing new. It’s the strawberries stitched on Desdemona’s handkerchief in Othello; it’s the abusive comments on...
View ArticleAnne Hathaway Can't Win
Andrew H. Walker / Getty Images When you work hard, when that work is awarded, when your body and beauty match societal standards, when you check every box, and still everyone tells you you’re doing...
View Article7 Essays To Read: When Schools Are Racist, "Depressiongrams," And...
This week, 10 nonwhite Americans speak out about discrimination they’ve experienced inside the classroom. Read that and other essays from The Daily Dot, Medium, Salon, and more. "School Is Racist" —...
View ArticleHow Income Disparity Impacts Romantic Relationships
Michela Buttignol for BuzzFeed News. Few things disturb an otherwise healthy relationship like money problems. Sometimes, the problem is simply “one of us has more of it.” Income disparity — when one...
View Article26 Questions Asians Have For White People
“Why do you always ask me ‘where am I really from?’” BuzzFeed Yellow / Via youtu.be
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